Are you kidding me???

Ok, this whole Mr. BadMood blog is a pointless waste of time, where i occasionally rant about things on my mind. i will try so very hard to be calm about this next post though it pisses me off to no end.

short story...

a man named chris died in raleigh. to make it worse, he died on the day he was supposed to get married to karen. now anyone who knows me i hope, knows that i find absolutely nothing funny about this situation. it is a tragic event that will haunt his family, friends, and fiancee forever.

the story goes on to tell what a devoted christian he was. i am not huge on religion, and battle my own demons with my faith, and confess that the ultra religious more than often get on my nerves. my issue, but i will never ever tell a person how to worship. that said....

the story interviews one of chris' groomsmen, a man named andrew bowman, and here's where i get angry.

Andrew Bowman, Groomsman had this to say... this story is so unbelievable that the fact that it actually happened is why i'm happy for chris. i'm happy there are a lot of people who are going to hear about this, and a lot of people are going to see that Karen is going to flourish from this situation. a lot of people gonna see that we're going to help out chris's family, we're going to help out karen's family.

the fact that it actually happened is why i'm happy for chris??? are you effing kidding me? in no way shape or form should you be happy for chris! period. he died on his wedding day you schmuck. you should feel saddened. you should feel confused, but happy? you are a moron.

what exactly are alot of people going to hear about? that a man died on his wedding day. that's what people will hear. maybe if you sent a message out about the consequences of running a red light, more people would get the message.

i hope to whoever that karen flourishes. but not today. today she mourns for the one she loved. but you go ahead and help. you run home make a tuna casserole for chris and karen's families. i'm sure that will make it all better. in the end though, you will still be an idiot.

"the fact that it actually happened is why i'm happy for chris." god you piss me off andrew bowman.

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Is it that easy?

so, in the past month let's say, i have found out that 2 of my friends are getting divorced from their husbands, two others are in marriages that have major issues, and an old friend of mine is also seeking divorce. You know, i could just focus on the good relationships around me, but i feel like i've been in a tornado of bad news lately.

this is why i am

MBM

sad day...

so a friend of mine died yesterday after a not so long battle with bone cancer.

Mr. BadMood

tough decisions...

so you know when you're young, and invincible, and willing to try anything whether you fail or not? well i'm not young anymore, and it bothers me. why the hell can't i just make a decision, try a risky thing, do something in addition to, or in replacement of the thing i do. disclaimer... i love my job, and most of the people i work with.

that said... i am at the will and mercy of my state, my county, my employer. 40 hours a week, i get paid. 60 hours a week i get paid the same. i can't control the scale. thought here is safety in that, to some degree, but there is something to be said for putting in more of my blood sweat and tears to make an honest buck. when do i take control? 17 years ago when my career was just getting off the ground, or 20 years after the fact? locked in a career that is good and noble, and worthwhile, but with no financial recognition for time spent.

i chose my career, i have no issues with that. as i said, i do love it. when though will i grow a pair and make something happen for me? when will i get to say that this is mine? i built it, i maintained it, i earned it?

Grrr.

MBM

i don't know if i condom this behavior...

Possibly the best condom commercial ever!!!

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To Beet or not to Beet...

So last month I was in Dallas visiting the new future inlaws. We went to a great grocery, where I purchases this shockingly pink greek yogurt and beets. It had to be one of the most delicious things i have eaten. Since then, i have made it myself once and had it made for me once. we're talking alot of beets. do you know what happens when you mix yellow pee with pink beets? yep, i'm peeing an orangish pinkish. it's kind of like i'm peeing a rainbow. i've had yellow, orange (dehydrated), and now pink. i'm wondering if i eat only green things if it will have some effect. blue things? i sense and experiment.

MBM

New Password...

Ok, I know it's been a while, but had to share. I'm a Network Admin in a School, and was approached by a staff member who's password had expired. i asked her to write her name and a new password on a slip, and place it on my desk in my office.

later in the day, i went to my office only to find a piece of paper with her name, and the words "new password!"

i laughed.

MBM

black hole vagina

i'm talking with a friend who is in a bad relationship in my opinion. this guy she's with won't commit, shows her no emotion whatsoever. so, guys... if your woman came out of the bedroom wearing something sexy, would you, A) continue to watch tv, or B) attack? he watched tv. she then went back in the bedroom three other times and put on different outfits. still he sat. she asked him which one he would like her to wear, he said that he didn't care. they didn't have sex. she has been with this guy for 3 years, and he has, apparently, no interest in her physically. they have such little sex that she wonders if her vagina will implode and start sucking the entire universe into her womb. that last sentence is the only reason i posted this blog. feel free to comment.

MBM